Reflecting Reality - 7 Laws
Life: it’s out to get you sometimes.
At least that’s often what your brain tells you. Reality Transurfing tells you that’s all in your head 🙂
Vadim Zeland writes that the world is a “dual mirror.” And a mirror simply reflects what you are putting out. And the dual mirror has two sides: the physical world we touch and the hidden world of our thoughts. So our reality is one giant mirror that reflects our internal state and send it right back to us as our external reality.
Reality transurfing as developed by Zeland gives you and me seven simple “laws” for dealing with life - for dealing with the dual mirror.
Reality Transurfing says that’s mostly in your head—the world is basically a dual mirror that just reflects whatever you’re putting out. Here are seven simple laws that’ll help you quit chasing the reflection and start directing the thing instead (I wrote a bit about this in Reality Director).
First Law -Your world is whatever you decide it is.
The dual mirror doesn’t give a tinker’s damn about your story. It only reflects the relationship you’ve already decided to have with it. You see hostility in your world? The mirror will show you more of the same. You see abundance in your world? Try it out and see for yourself.,
Second Law - Get your head and heart on the same page.
Reality will not move based on your thoughts. Reality will not move based on your feelings. When your head and your gut tell you the same story you will see movement of your choice. So when your gut tells you something is impossible, guess what? When that brain of yours tells you “no way” - guess what?
Third Law - Expect a lag.
As Zeland says “reality is like tar.” When you align your head and your heart and you decide what world you want to live in you won’t see magic as if a wand were waved. Don’t worry. “Hold the pause” as Zeland would say - keep your alignment and the reflection in the mirror steady. Change will follow.
Fourth Law - The mirror only sees what you’re focused on.
The negative has meaning to the mirror. The mirror only knows what you think about. So hating your debt simply shows up in the mirror as “debt.” You’ll get more of it. When you don’t want something STARVE it of your attention. Turn your focus to the thing you actually want. Simple? Hardly. But do this consistently.
Fifth Law - Look at the image, not the reflection.
You can’t rearrange the world you see. It’s a reflection from that dual mirror. You change the image inside yourself - you change the reflection you see.
Sixth Law - Let go.
If you want to stay stuck in a reality you profess not to want then keep trying to force the reality you do want. I guarantee you will stay stuck in what you don’t want. What Zeland calls “balanced forces” ensure that. Let go. Relax. Give the tar slow world a bit of time. Change beings and ironically enough, you get control!
Seventh Law - Call everything a win.
To me this is the most important law and the most difficult to actually do. This is also where I’ve experienced the biggest changes personally. You just choose to decide every single event is working in your favor and choose to select that positive viewpoint ALWAYS. When you lock in that viewpoint the reality mirror starts shifting you on to more positive life tracks. I aim to do it daily (but being an ordinary person I can say making this choice can be pretty damn hard at times) - and IT WORKS. Try it and see for yourself.
So we all can stop being victims and start choosing the reality version we see.
BTW, Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland is a huge and dense book but I’d encourage you to read it for yourself (if you already haven’t.) Affiliate link to the book if you are interested.