Reality Transurfing: Positive Forks

That unexpected bill hits, you get in a bad argument with your partner, stuff goes wrong. You get pissed. You get outdone. It happens to me too much and it probably happens to you way too much. Working on this part of your relationship to reality is challenging. I imagine this is where a lot of folks just forget about all this Reality Transurfing stuff!

I already wrote a bit about the “laws” of the Dual Mirror and said that this positivity part is the hardest for me personally.

And the point to keep in mind here is that the mirror (the world/reality) just reflects your relationship to it straight back to you So when you take that negative fork and say “this is bad” you are going to likely get more bad coming right back at you.

So the trick is to take the positive fork in the road. Decide the exact same event works for you. Which can be damned hard to do,

Here the thing that I see happening. When I decide everything that happens works in my favor (and this sounds sort of lame) everything starts working in my favor. I’m not sure exactly how to say this any simpler!

Ok, so how do I do this? How can you try this? Well I know you don’t have to believe that it will work for you. I didn’t believe it would work for me. Try it first. I did. And it works.

So here’s the method I use. Of course no method in this space of reality transurfing, reality hacking and magick is one size fits all. When those negative type events happen I pause. I try to watch from the audience instead of being in the movie - a mental shift. Then I say out loud (if at all possible so folks around won’t think I’m a lunatic) - this is a win. Even if I don’t know how I’m winning at that point in time. (and most of the time I don’t know how). I make myself laugh to further change the vibe and most of the time that laughing feels fake. That feeling goes away after a few seconds.

I usually feel the negative energy drop pretty quickly. Not every time but most of the time and that’s important. I see and feel the difference.

I’m not saying to tell yourself that the “negative” situation isn’t real - that it doesn’t exist - that it will magically go away. Nope - but I am saying don’t give the negative part of the situation any energy. Starve it of your reaction. Without that negative energy feeding your reality mirror there is less negative energy to reflect back to you.

And I still do things the way I’ve always done them and I still default to that negative reaction way too often. The difference for me is now I catch myself quickly and flip it around. Purposefully. And I see the change. Some days it works immediately. Some days I simply don’t make a bad situation worse.

Either way it’s a win.

BTW, If you haven’t already read Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland I’d encourage you to read it for yourself! Affiliate link to the book if you are interested.